the bright spot

when reading through fast company, I came across an interesting quote from switch: focus on a bright spot, and then let it grow.
I think in many of the problems we face in relationships and with work, we tend to focus on the dak spots, and spend a lot of energy there- which drains us.
if we focus on the bright spots or areas we enjoy, and try to grow them- that would be something which will give you more energy and make you enjoy your relationship with the person or activity even more!
this is especially true for the 'problem solvers' who keep trying to solve problems, only to be caught on by more complex ones!